since very long I was thinking whether to include this article in my blog or not ...today finally decided to jot it down...as was hurted badly by my true friend...but yes it taught me very important lesson in life....
I feel very sad to mention here that she is no longer my friend...I havent did anything bad with her still she had totally removed and erased all our sweet memories good times that we had been together...we did lot many things for each other but now dont know what happened and there is no more relationship neither talk between us...all is drained...in vain
The lesson which I took from her regarding life is as follows...I would never blame her but dont know why and how it happened?
I pray god that no one in this world should get devoid of her true friends once gained....
Many a times we hamper our relationships rather lose them because we expect a lot in return…same goes with friendship.. Often, we believe that others ought to treat us the way we want them to respond. Then when others fail to meet our expectations, we feel betrayed, frustrated, and resentful.Same was experienced between us...I expected lot from her and was mistaken that she broke my heart into pieces lot many times...
Many times our feelings have been hurt because we mistakenly assumed someone else must know what we thought or expected…
Many times we become annoyed or angry with someone who acted differently than we expected…
It does not matter what kind of relationship you are in. Expectations arise in any kind of relationship. Except that of a parent and a child, I believe… That is one relationship which is so pure, that no one expects anything from anyone … It’s the pure love for both sides…
If one has to leave peacefully and happily, LIVE WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS.
Cherish what you have now :) …
Be happy in what u have....at least from ur side be good....Iam trying hard to talk to her but she is not at all interested in the same...moreover she informed wrongly to her parents and family members so they are also not responding me and this has caused many health related issues to me....also his husband is talking bad things about me with others which is not at all acceptable....anyways dont ever break hearts of others it troubles them a lot!
I feel very sad to mention here that she is no longer my friend...I havent did anything bad with her still she had totally removed and erased all our sweet memories good times that we had been together...we did lot many things for each other but now dont know what happened and there is no more relationship neither talk between us...all is drained...in vain
The lesson which I took from her regarding life is as follows...I would never blame her but dont know why and how it happened?
I pray god that no one in this world should get devoid of her true friends once gained....
Many a times we hamper our relationships rather lose them because we expect a lot in return…same goes with friendship.. Often, we believe that others ought to treat us the way we want them to respond. Then when others fail to meet our expectations, we feel betrayed, frustrated, and resentful.Same was experienced between us...I expected lot from her and was mistaken that she broke my heart into pieces lot many times...
Many times our feelings have been hurt because we mistakenly assumed someone else must know what we thought or expected…
Many times we become annoyed or angry with someone who acted differently than we expected…
It does not matter what kind of relationship you are in. Expectations arise in any kind of relationship. Except that of a parent and a child, I believe… That is one relationship which is so pure, that no one expects anything from anyone … It’s the pure love for both sides…
If one has to leave peacefully and happily, LIVE WITHOUT EXPECTATIONS.
Cherish what you have now :) …
Be happy in what u have....at least from ur side be good....Iam trying hard to talk to her but she is not at all interested in the same...moreover she informed wrongly to her parents and family members so they are also not responding me and this has caused many health related issues to me....also his husband is talking bad things about me with others which is not at all acceptable....anyways dont ever break hearts of others it troubles them a lot!
